A friend of mine was telling me how her psycho ex husband applied credit cards in her name and got her into a lot of debt and trouble. Her marriage caused her a lot of troubles and pain ever since I knew her years ago, and now even when they are divorced she is still paying her prices....
Mom was telling me how the families with marriage problems always cause a lot of troubles in church...for some reason people just don't learn even when they fail in relationships and marriages....and then of course everyone who are involved suffer...including the kids and whoever trying to help out.
Billy told me God put people together so we learn how to love. The questions is....what is you are loving the wrong person and you were never supposed to love them to start with? I know there is no perfect people in this world...but then people still need to be careful with what they choose right? Don't we have to pay the prices if we made the wrong choice at the very beginning? and the sad thing is that we humans just tend to make wrong choices in life for whatever reasons...
Sometimes I wonder if marriage is really some kinda trap. It looks good for those who are not in it because they feel lonely. I personally just don't feel marriage is a cure for loneliness or anything that you really hope for it to work for...It is hard work if it's meant for a life time. Anything that is for a life time takes a lot of effort to make it right....
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